You feel stuck in the same relationship patterns

Everyone around you seems to have it together, while you feel like you’re just existing. You’re constantly overthinking everything you say or do. You carry the weight of expectations from family, culture, and society and it’s exhausting. As an Asian American or child of immigrants, those expectations can feel even harder to name, let alone step outside of. You may also be navigating relational trauma, cultural/identity issues, or sexual trauma that add layers to how you experience yourself and others.

How therapy can help

As a Korean American therapist, I understand how culture, family, and identity shape emotional experience in ways that are often overlooked in traditional therapy. I’m comfortable naming cultural expectations, emotional suppression, immigration trauma, visa anxieties, bicultural partnerships- things that can be hard to explain to someone who hasn’t lived it. Sessions with me are collaborative, warm, and direct. We slow down your automatic reactions and trace them back to where you learned them. Together, we will make sense of how your past experiences continue to shape your present and begin to shift those patterns in a way that feels sustainable.